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Do you have time for a quick chat? (Maybe, if you follow these simple guidelines)
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The quick chat email. We all get them with varying frequency.
“Hi Trey, any chance you have time for a chat? I’d love to pick your brain about my [project / job search / career choices] over lunch or coffee.”
First, let me make absolutely clear that it is flattering to be seen as someone whose opinions are valuable and it is certainly a position of privilege to be seen as a source of career advice. I’d also say that I’m probably the last person you should be seeking advice from. I’m stumbling around in the dark without a flashlight just like everyone else!
Second, let me just tell you how much dread that simple email can bring about. If I ignore this email, I’ll feel like a jerk. If I respond to this email, I’m almost guaranteed 30–60 minutes of meandering, unplanned conversation. Don’t do this! The person you are emailing is a) busy, b) not invested in your project or job search, and c) going through their own struggles in life. If you’re hoping the person will also consider you for some kind of position down the road, you haven’t done yourself any favors.
Third, let me say that I’ve been guilty of violating all of the guidelines I’ve listed. I am not without sin. These guidelines have been collected from many ‘quick chats’ on both on the requesting and granting sides.
Follow these guidelines and you’ll find yourself much more likely to get a response and not waste anyone’s valuable time.
Let’s revisit the email from above.
“Hi Trey, I read your blog post on data science interviews and was hoping I could buy you a coffee at Storyville in Pike Place this week to ask you a few questions about your post.
I’m currently interviewing and the part about whiteboard coding was really interesting to me. I’d love to hear your thoughts on how to improve whiteboard coding questions and answers as well as share some of my own experiences with these types of questions.
Could you spare 30 minutes to discuss this? I'm free Tuesday or Wednesday of next week before 2pm if that suits you. Thanks for writing the post!
Is this wordier? Yes. However, I have a much better sense of where you’re coming from, why you want to talk, and what we’re going to talk about. You’ve signaled that you know my time is valuable and you don’t want to waste it. I am much more likely to say yes to this email.
Finally, sometimes people just won’t respond to your requests. I do this too. People are busy. Some people don’t read their LinkedIn messages. If you get ignored, don’t feel bad, and don’t resend a request without waiting a while.
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